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Always the hook up never the girlfriend

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Four years ago, I got out of a relationship with someone I truly cared about, who I know cared about me. We broke up; it was mutual. So we started to unravel, and finally went our separate ways.

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For a while, I was excited about being single. It had been so long.

I could have anyone, whenever I wanted, and that feeling built my confidence. It was exactly how I wanted to feel, in fact. I learned all too quickly that I am not a one-night-only kind of girl. I am not interested in seeing someone for one night and then never again. So instead, I picked people who I felt that I could get close to, which seemed like the right choice.

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But that will always lead to a standstill, because ultimately, if you want to only hook up to people you can get close to, but neither of you wants a relationship, there has to be an expiration date. I used to come into a hook up situation brimming with confidence, wanting to make a connection with someone but not build a future with them.

I would make it clear that all I wanted was a casual but recurring hook up, a fling, or whatever you want to call it. We share things with each other, we have amazing physical chemistry, we are close, we make each other laugh.

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I am just fucking sick of it. I am sick of putting myself out there and having someone not want to move beyond a certain point with me because they suffer from Maybe The Grass Is Greener On The Other Side syndrome.

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I am done telling them my exact intentions, and then having them flake on me when we start to get serious. I am done being there for guys who say they want support and a relationship, but really just want me to be available whenever they want me in their bed.


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